Open Relationship: Find Your Connections on JALF
Living in an open couple or looking to explore a free relationship? JALF brings together thousands of members seeking exactly what you want: authentic connections, judgment-free, between consenting adults who own their desires.
Join 1M+ members in open relationships
Tired of Looking in All the Wrong Places?
Living in an open relationship is a confident choice. But on mainstream dating apps, explaining that you're in an open couple often turns awkward: judgment, confusion, profiles that don't match your reality. The result? You waste time filtering people who don't even understand what an open couple means. On JALF, ethical non-monogamy is the norm, not the exception. Here, you find members who share your vision of free relationships and are looking for the same connections as you.
How Does It Work?
Three simple steps to start meeting open-minded people.
Create Your Free Account
Free signup in 2 minutes. Discreet, secure, and no commitment. Your open couple, your rules.
Describe What You're Looking For
Set up your profile and preferences. Specify that you're in an open relationship to attract the right people.
Explore and Connect
Browse profiles, use advanced search, and start chatting with members who share your desires.
The Tools to Live Your Open Relationship
Find exactly what you’re looking for
Don't just browse—find the person who shares your exact deep-seated desires. Use advanced filters to connect with partners ready to help you realize your fantasies and live a fulfilled sex life.
Members Living the Open Relationship Lifestyle
Discover profiles of people who, like you, explore ethical non-monogamy and seek authentic connections.
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What Our Open Couple Members Think
Testimonials from members living in open relationships who found their community on JALF.
The testimonials shown are representative examples. Names and photos do not represent real members, for privacy reasons.
We'd been searching for a while
With my partner, we'd tried other sites, but people didn't understand what we were living as an open couple. On JALF, within the first week, we connected with real people living the same thing. No explanations needed.
Finally a place where it's normal
At first I was afraid of being judged. My boyfriend and I own our open relationship, but not everyone gets it. Six months later, we have our little circle and never feel like we need to justify ourselves.
It reignited something between us
After 15 years together, we didn't even know where to start opening our relationship. We discovered a community of respectful people who live like us. It changed the way we see our relationship and our life.
