Extramarital Encounters on JALF
Looking for an extramarital encounter without risking your privacy? JALF brings together thousands of married or committed people who want the same thing you do: an extramarital adventure in complete discretion, without judgment and without a trace.
Thousands of members seeking extramarital encounters
Tired of sites that don't understand discretion?
Finding an extramarital encounter on mainstream apps is walking through a minefield. Profiles visible to everyone, suggestions popping up on your partner's screen, compromising notifications lighting up your phone. Not to mention so-called specialized sites packed with fake profiles and bots. On JALF, discretion is at the core of everything. Anonymous browsing, verified profiles, encrypted messaging and invisible billing on your statements. Here, consenting adults seeking an extramarital affair connect in complete confidentiality, without risking their privacy.
Your extramarital encounter in 3 steps
Simple, fast and confidential. Here's how to find your extramarital encounter on JALF.
Create your confidential profile
Sign up in 2 minutes, 100% discreet. Control exactly who sees your profile and photos.
Describe what you're looking for
Set your preferences: married woman, married man, one-time extramarital adventure or ongoing affair. JALF connects the right people.
Connect in complete confidentiality
Send a private message, use advanced search or activate Immediate Encounters to find who's available now.
The tools for your extramarital encounter
Slide into their DMs
Private and unfiltered chats. Send photos, videos, or hop on a video call to take your chemistry to the next level.
Discover our community
Authentic, verified profiles. Browse in complete confidentiality.
Photos shared with the explicit consent of our members.
What our members say about their extramarital encounters
Authentic testimonials from members who experience their extramarital adventures in complete discretion.
Testimonials anonymized to protect our members' privacy.
The step I should have taken sooner
I'd been hesitating for months. My relationship had gone stale and I needed something more, without wrecking everything. I tried JALF one evening, and from the very first conversation I knew people here were looking for the same thing I was.
The discretion I was looking for existed
My biggest worry was being recognized. I scrutinized the platform inside and out before signing up. After six months, I found exactly what I wanted: quality encounters, zero trace. Simple and effective.
I found the woman I used to be
Navigating solo in an open relationship isn't always easy. I was afraid of finding only superficial connections. But here, I met men who understand nuance and respect. I rediscovered a confidence in myself I'd forgotten about a long time ago.
